SEX
My significant other has a very specific birthday request—sex everyday for a month. I am willing to give it a whirl but I am sure that there will be a sobering lesson at the end of this journey for the both of us.
Sex is like chocolate cake. Chocolate cake once or twice and week is oral pleasure—chocolate cake everyday for a month, not so much. I am afraid that I will miss out on the intricacies of the connection by having sex just to have sex. I don’t want to lose the tiny seconds of silence that come immediately after the sweet convulsion. I want the anticipation, the shivers…traversing the unknown. I want some kind of sacredness—sex should not be like watching television, eating or dressing everyday. It is not a routine test.
I am comfortable with my sexuality. It is a garment I wear with ease. However, I don’t believe that you need to have sex or think about sex to be sexy. Sexy is not something that you do, it is who you are. There are tons of people who have sex and are not sexy.
Sex, when done properly, is succulent. Sex, when used as currency, is perverse.
Because of love and my passion for learning experiences, I will travel where few other women have traveled before. But do know, that if this becomes routine, as I fear, I might have to opt for a new experience ;-)
Sex is like chocolate cake. Chocolate cake once or twice and week is oral pleasure—chocolate cake everyday for a month, not so much. I am afraid that I will miss out on the intricacies of the connection by having sex just to have sex. I don’t want to lose the tiny seconds of silence that come immediately after the sweet convulsion. I want the anticipation, the shivers…traversing the unknown. I want some kind of sacredness—sex should not be like watching television, eating or dressing everyday. It is not a routine test.
I am comfortable with my sexuality. It is a garment I wear with ease. However, I don’t believe that you need to have sex or think about sex to be sexy. Sexy is not something that you do, it is who you are. There are tons of people who have sex and are not sexy.
Sex, when done properly, is succulent. Sex, when used as currency, is perverse.
Because of love and my passion for learning experiences, I will travel where few other women have traveled before. But do know, that if this becomes routine, as I fear, I might have to opt for a new experience ;-)
Comments
the lesson as all are always sobering
you go girl!!!
and poor Tim, I hope he finds what he is looking for in this world
this is true.
@dreamuy
why thank you. I hope that he finds it real soon.
@miz
lol. "one night i loved a stranger"--i love that line.
@socialite
glad that u found it fitting
lmao...forking the chocolate cake. oh...the imagery. i'm sure that ur cake is very tasty.
Greetings from London.
I so share your sentiments... to much of a good thing can become boring. Just try to keep your heart in it!
Intimate Outings of Love
this is so true.
Greetings from London.
maybe where his arse out the first week to know end so that he might not even be able to make it...lol
really? is that for men or for women? lol
@eb,
lmao. u know, i think that i just might follow ur advice. put it down hard and quick. that will do it!
i wish that you could speak with my sig other :-) the connection is what is most important to me. thanks for commenting and welcome.
wow...I'd like to see how u pull this off...hope it doesnt ruin the flavour...
so its open now....
update me on the blogroll, the name is thedreamyones.blogspot
i'll keep u posted. lol
@dreamy
will do
That said, how's it going thus far?
I hope this experiment doesn't take away from the wonderment of lovemaking between you and the mister :-)
I'm preparing to blog about the events in a few days ;-)Thanks for stopping in.
@realhustla
Testing my dedication, huh. never thought about that. i just figured that she had a high sex drive. thanks for stopping in. welcome.
@queen
I am glad that you liked the post. Yes, you feel me on the sexiness part. Thanks for stopping in!
lol
but the catch is no sex for another month
actually, they will be a break, cuz of that special privilege we get once a month
Scientists say that it's the same substance in the brain, dopamine, that controls your desire for both.
So the next time someone asks you if you like chocolate he might actually be saying, 'do you like sex'?
Oh waddap, im -Q.
the task is over. lol. thanks for stopping in. welcome.
@kay-shawn,
u r right, sex and chocolate do stimulate the same hormones. did u know that too much stimulation can cause the receptors in ur brain to dull, therefore requiring more of the drug for stimulation? interesting to think about that in connection to sex. thanks for stopping in.
@q
glad that u hear me on the sexy bit. if things went as planned, i would have followed ur advice. maybe next time. lol. thanks for stopping in and welcome.
Still very much impressive, I see. Good deal.
very good post!
I could deal without chocolate cake but I won't deal without sex. Lmao!!!
Sex every day...hmmmm...dunno if the wife would be down. I'll ask her. If she doesn't cuss me out...I'll let you know. Haaaaa
glad that u enjoyed the read. welcome back.
@12kyle
thanks for stopping by. welcome. yeah, u go ask ur wife about that. maybe one of us can complete this task. haha
u said she stumbled upon it, so she knows ur stand concernin it, maybe once she digests it, she'll see reason..
apparently she did. all is well that ends well.
I think us women tend to view sex as a specail thing between man and woman, but men tend to view it as a normal urge, like hunger...
u are so right. but, there are some women have have a hunger for it too.